others help you be authentic examine how you react to dissent explain context & give people direction recognize & name your emotions make people feel heard ask the right questions choose to be informed tell people what happens give feedback on the feedback
holes in this, what would you say?” • “I’m not 100% sold that this is the way to go, so would really like to hear other perspectives on it.” • “I hadn’t thought of that before!” • “This was a great thing to flag for us to think through.” • “Thank you for talking to me about this. I’m really glad to have a chance to talk with you about it.”